When a child persists in a behavior you'd like to correct -- like raising his hand for every question -- warn him in advance that you will not be able to pay attention to him when he does that. Then follow through and deliberately ignore him when he persists.

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Even young children can begin to learn the concept of consequences if you use “if-then” thinking with them. Ask them to predict the consequences of a particular behavior. Use phrases like, “If you do that, then what do you think will happen?”

For children aged 6 and older, the most effective reinforcements for successful performance of tasks are activities that children enjoy – not material things. You probably already use some activity rewards for your entire class, but you can also structure daily “reward minutes” for individual children during which they can read, play a game, use the computer, or do some other activity that they really enjoy.

When a child persists in a behavior you'd like to correct -- like raising his hand for every question -- warn him in advance that you will not be able to pay attention to him when he does that. Then follow through and deliberately ignore him when he persists.

If you are having trouble with a child's disruptive behavior, find out whether the parents are having the same problem at home. If they are, try to agree on using the same discipline strategy at home and at school. Greater consistency will help the child change that behavior more quickly.

The best way to help a child gain control over impulsive behavior in the classroom is to give concrete feedback in addition to your praise when she manages her impulses. One easy and effective approach is to give the child a card with a smiley face each time you sense that she has mastered her impulsiveness. Her growing collection of cards will help to reinforce her self-managed behavior.